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Brenda Lee Proctor

May 9, 1964 — October 28, 2023

Brenda Proctor, a resident of Okmulgee, Oklahoma at member of the Muscogee Creek Nation passed away on October 28, 2023 at the age of 59. Brenda was born on May 9, 1964, in Okmulgee, OK, the cherished daughter of M.A. Proctor and Lula Mae Messer.

Brenda's life was defined by her deep love for her family, and she found immense joy in the presence of her beloved granddaughter, Maylee. She was known for her warm and welcoming nature, her love for social gatherings, and her passion for cooking out and spending quality time with those closest to her. Her niece, Stephanie Deere, shared a special bond with Brenda, spending cherished moments together, particularly enjoying their time fishing.

Preceded in death by her parents, M.A. Proctor and Lula Mae Messer, Brenda leaves behind a legacy that will forever be treasured in the hearts of her five sons, Joshua Pickett, M.A. Proctor, Ronnie Proctor, Cory Sanders, and Samuel Sanders. Her memory will also be cherished by her siblings, Ronald Proctor of Tulsa, OK, Nancy Proctor of Tahlequah, OK, Linda Waterdown of Tahlequah, OK, Mary Hernandez of Tahlequah, OK, Carla and Rachel Schexnider of Cushing, OK, Roberta Pickett of Okmulgee, OK, Dorothy Proctor of Lawton, OK, and Elizabeth Deere of Okmulgee, OK (sister-in-law).

She is also mourned by her deceased siblings, Martin Proctor of Tahlequah, OK, Robert Deere of Okmulgee, OK, and Nancy Kay Proctor of Lawton, OK. Brenda's significant other, Frank Sanders, grieves her loss deeply alongside her circle of other friends and relatives.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Schaudt's Okmulgee Funeral Service & Cremation Care, located at 220 S. Alabama, Okmulgee, OK 74447. Those who wish to offer words of comfort, share special memories, or express condolences to the family are encouraged to visit the online tribute page at

Brenda's legacy of love and cherished memories will continue to bring comfort to all those who mourn her passing. She will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who were touched by her warmth and kindness.

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Service Schedule

Past Services

Wake Service

Thursday, November 2, 2023

5:00 - 7:00 pm (Central time)

Schaudt's Okmulgee FuneralService Chapel

220 South Alabama Avenue, Okmulgee, OK 74447

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Funeral Service

Friday, November 3, 2023

1:00 - 2:00 pm (Central time)

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